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Mengenal dan Memahami Karakter si Dia

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Selama ini kita mengenal orang dari kepribadian mereka. Ada orang yang mudah bersahabat, pendiam, keras, pemarah, pendendam, penyabar, santai, perfeksionis (menuntuk kesempurnaan), penggembira, optimis, pesimis, dan masih banyak istilah lain yang menggambarkan diri seseorang. Kalau diamati sekilas, kelihatannya akan cukup sulit untuk bisa mempelajari dan memahami kepribadian seseorang.

 

Bila kita renungkan lebih dalam dikehidupan ini, kita banyak bertemu dengan bermacam-macam orang. Hal itu menuntut kita untuk bisa mengerti karakter tiap-tiap individu tersebut, agar kita bisa memilih mana orang yang cocok dengan kepribadian yang kita sukai, dan juga untuk bisa lebih memahami karakter orang yang sering melakukan kontak dengan kita, agar diantara kita tidak sampai terjadi permasalahan yang merusak keharmonisan hubungan kita.

 

Perlu di ketahui bahwa ada 4 karakter utama yang dimiliki oleh setiap orang. Yaitu korelis, sanguinis, melankolis, dan phlegmatic. Idealnya, seseorang mempunyai karakter gabungan dari dua karakter. Namun, tidak menutup kemungkinan seseorang murni hanya mempunyai satu karakter saja, perpaduan antara tiga karakter sekaligus atau bahkan perpaduan antara keempatnya.

 

A. MEMAHAMI KARAKTER MELALUI CARA BICARA (LOGAT)

 

1. Taktis

Topik pembicaraannya cenderung pada hal-hal yang bersifat aktual. Biasanya lebih menekankan kata “aku” pada setiap perkataannya. Selalu ingin berdebat dan tidak mau mengalah dalam perdebatan. Sifat seperti ini cenderung membawa kepada karakter korelis.

 

2. Rame

Selalu membicarakan tentang pengalaman pribadinya, namun terkadang bercerita tentang orang lain. Pembicaraannya kebanyakan tidak terlalu penting dan diulang-ulang sampai pendengar merasa bosan. Bicaranya ceplas-ceplos dan tidak ada yang ditutupi. Sifat ini mengarah pada karakter sanguinis.

 

3. Penuh Penghayatan

Menyimpan segala perkataan orang lain dalam hati. Selalu berkata setelah mendengarkan apa yang telah dibicarakan sebelumnya. Cenderung mengucapkan kata “kita”. Dalam perkataannya, orang ini selalu menutupi hal yang menurut dia bersifat pribadi. Sifat seperti ini lebih kepada karakter melankolis.

 

4. Cenderung Pendiam

Apabila ada suatu pembicaraan yang melibatkan banyak orang, orang ini cenderung menjadi pendengar. Orang ini selalu mengikuti aliran arus dan cenderung mudah terbawa. Sifat seperti ini mengarah pada karakter phlegmatis.

 

 

B. MEMAHAMI KARAKTER LEWAT CARA BERJALAN

 

1. Cepat

Jalannya selalu cepat karena karakter ini punya prinsip waktu adalah hal yang sangat berharga. Cara jalannya mantap dengan badan tegak dan mata menatap ke depan dengan tatapan yang tajam. Korelis adalah karakter yang paling cocok bagi orang ini.

 

2. Tebar Pesona

Cara jalannya biasa-biasa saja. Kira-kira sekitar 7 Km/jam. Namun uniknya, orang ini tidak sedikitpun melewatkan sesuatu yang dia anggap menarik di sekelilingnya. Orang ini selalu menoleh kesana kemari sembari mengharap ada orang yang dicuri perhatiannya dengan orang ini. Karakter ini merupakan cerminan dari sifat sanguinis.

 

3. Selalu Menunduk

Entah apa yang dipikirkan orang ini. Namun, survey membuktikan bahwa orang melankolis ini merupakan tipe orang yang sensitif dan lebih dominan perasaan. Dalam berjalannya, mereka lebih suka menundukkan kepala daripada tolah-toleh nggak jelas. Kecepatan berjalannya juga hampir sama dengan tipe orang sanguinis.

 

4. Slow but Sure

Kira-kira dengan kecepatan 5 Km/jam atau bahkan kurang. Tatapan matanya cenderung ke depan namun kosong laksana air danau yang sama sekali belum tersentuh tangan jahil manusia. Pembawaannya tenang tanpa gejolak yang berarti. Lebih tepatnya, orang ini mempunyai jiwa phlegmatis yang berpotensi. To be continue……….

 

 

 

 

 

 

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